This afternoon I begin my final semester of classes. I decided to look around and see what I needed to finish up to clear my mind before I enter what threatens to be my most difficult semester so far (well, excluding those two semesters that I had to take Biology). I realized that I didn’t post a Christmas blog. So . . .
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Today I mowed the lawn for the first time in at least 35 years. I do not think I have mowed since I lived with my parents many moons ago. Now I will share some wisdom I learned while mowing today, just in case any of you have been out of practice for a while.
- It is probably a good idea to mow the lawn at least once while someone is around that knows HOW to mow the lawn.
- When you ask your son and husband for step-by-step instructions and Step #1 is “remove the mower from the garage,” then you KNOW they are making fun of you.
- Even though your son and husband have written down step-by-step instructions, there are always things that they will fail to mention – NOT because they are mean, but simply because they mow so often that it is second nature to them. I mean, nobody told me that the gas tank was hiding UNDER the seat of the riding mower.
- Allow PLENTY of time to mow the lawn before dark.
- When using a walking mower that has one of those levers you pull to make the wheels turn so you simply walk behind the mower, be ready to GO when you pull the lever.
- When things on the mower are strapped or tied up, make sure you look carefully at how they are strapped or tied JUST in case you brush into a bush and they fall off and you have to re-attach them.
- ALWAYS be aware of the width of your mower.
- When using the walking mower, if you are on a small hill and the shoes you have chosen are a little slick, it is probably a good idea to change shoes BEFORE you get to the big hill.
- Did you know that when you leave your mower, unexpectedly, while mowing that it automatically shuts off?
- Always remove items from the bottom of a big hill BEFORE you begin to mow.
- Did you know that if you get off a riding mower without shutting it off first that it shuts off by itself?
- Don’t wear slippery pants while on a riding mower. Slippery pants + big hill = see previous bullet
- Duck when going under low branches. Now, I know you experienced mowers think this is an unnecessary step, but when you are a new mower there are MANY things to remember while driving.
- While on a riding mower, when you feel like you are getting the hang of it and feel very happy and proud of yourself, do NOT smile. You KNOW what the front grill of your car looks like.
- Enjoy the fruits of your labor…
May 11th is my official graduation day from East Tennessee State University. No, I am not walking…next May, you can all come and sit through my EXCITING graduation ceremony. I’m working on my cartwheel so I can perform it on stage after receiving my Master’s Degree diploma.
Completing my Bachelor’s degree comes with some bittersweet feelings because it means the end of a fantastic internship. Unfortunately, I cannot post any details on line other than to say that it has positively altered my thinking about mental health and “recovery.” This internship accomplished its purpose – to help narrow or refine the playing field. I will certainly miss my day-to-day responsibilities with the members and the fantastic staff that I was able to work with. They have set the bar very high.
I’ll have to wait to see what fun things await me on the next phase of my journey.
I told you it would be continued…probably life-long.
Have you ever had a day that you wish you could press “rewind” and start over? My kids used to ask me what super power I’d like to have. I think I’m choosing the “rewind the clock” superpower. DIBS!
I facilitated a class this morning called, Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff, using Dr. Richard Carlson’s book as a springboard. This morning, I “sweat the small stuff” and made the men in my life miserable in the process. Dumb things – like sitting down in a wet spot that got my clothes wet (though they were dry within 30 minutes) and which direction to school would be faster (and their way WAS faster). These are things that definitely won’t matter in a year, and in fact, won’t matter by tomorrow. As my son got out of the car this morning he said, “well, THAT was the most stressful drive to school I’ve ever had.” Poor thing. I hope his memory is short.
So, I write this as a public apology to my husband and son for crabbing this morning over things that are “small stuff.” I hope you, my faithful readers, don’t make the same mistakes that I do.
As you can see by our fancy duds, we’ve been doing some celebrating this year. Lydia and Philip (my favorite pastor son-in-law) were married on November 3rd. We had a wonderful time with friends and family who came to enjoy the day with us. Lydia graduated with her Masters from Lee University in July and is serving as an Admissions Counselor at Anderson University and Philip serves as a pastor at Cross Point Church. The newlyweds are settled in Anderson, SC.
Get ready to celebrate again in 2013 because Brandon (my favorite son-in-law to be) proposed to Grace on December 18th (what would have been Marshall Bier’s, Tom’s Dad’s, 100th birthday) and they are planning a June wedding. Grace and Brandon both graduated in May from King College. Grace is teaching 6th Language Arts in Knoxville and Brandon is an Accountant starting his new job after the first of the year.
Ellen is a Junior at the University of Tennessee studying Kinesiology. She hasn’t decided for sure what she wants to do with that but is enjoying her church family and her “Vols for Christ” family. She can often be found on a hike somewhere with her friends, but still won’t accept her dad’s request to let him track her on her iPhone. 🙂
Nathan is midway through his sophomore year. His swimming skills have greatly improved with the growth of his body (and in the voice of Miss Swan, “He looooooooks, like a man!”) and his dedication in practice. I have never understood how my children can get up at 4:45 a.m. and jump into a swimming pool for two hours. I drive Nathan to practice (in my sleep) and then crawl back into bed.
Tom continues to pastor part time at The Journey, meeting at the ETSU Campus Ministry house, and as of November 10, 2012, an American Association of Pastoral Counselor’s Certified Pastoral Counselor. His new full time job is teaching Earth Science and Physical Science at Science Hill High School. He is thoroughly enjoying teaching again and is having a great time with his students and the other staff. In between all this, he continues to work on finishing his doctorate.
Rhonda is one semester away from finishing her Bachelor’s Degree in Social Work and hopes to continue into the Advanced Standing Master’s Program beginning next summer. If all goes as planned, she will have her MSW in the Spring of 2014. I know you won’t believe this, but Tom actually expects her to get a job when she’s finished with school!
“As you celebrate the wonder of My birth in Bethlehem, celebrate also your rebirth into eternal life. This everlasting gift was the sole purpose of My entering your sin-stained world. Receive My gift with awe and humility. Take time to explore the vast dimensions of My love. Allow thankfulness to flow freely from your heart in response to my glorious gift.” –by Sarah Young in her devotional Jesus Calling.
Merry Christmas! from the Bier Family.
Last Friday Nathan fractured his wrist. Initial x-rays had the doctor concerned about a couple ligaments that he thought were spread out so he ordered a CT Scan to get a better look. It looked like surgery for Nathan.
Today we can thankfully report that he does NOT need surgery and will be in his new “Go Blue” cast for about 6 weeks. He can continue with cardio activity so Coach Chris has him on the bike as I write. You former swimmers will not be surprised at this. 🙂
This injury was a big set-back for Nathan who had just finished his goal-setting meeting with Coach Chris for the new swim season on the Science Hill High School team. He even has one of his times written up on the mirror as a constant reminder. Those plans will now be delayed a bit but he’s hoping not to lose too much ground.
Here are our photos of the day.